When you see your partner as inferior, you become contemptuous and destroy the relationship.
Some of the expressing contempt are rolling your eyes, curling your lip in disgust, or using a sarcastic tone with your partner.
Astro Ulagam found 5 signs you’re actually the toxic one in the relationship!
1) You’re always threatening to break up
No one likes to waste their time and energy arguing, but you can’t draw the break-up card every time things get tough. It just damages the safety and security of the relationship.
2) You're hot-headed
One wrong move and suddenly you snap and blurt nasty remarks you don’t mean. You continue to have these cycles of anger, remorse, shame, and provoked anger without understanding your share in the problem.
3) You never fix problems
If you neglect to nip problems in the bud, they’re just going to fester and blow up in your face down the road, which can cause your partner to resent you. If you never apologize or admit that you’re wrong and make things right, your partner will accrue a host of negative memories related to being unfairness and injustice.
4) You only think about yourself
You are extremely self-serving and feel no remorse when you hurt others. You’re only aware of what your partner does to you and not aware of what you do to them.
5) Your friends and family cause problems
If you have a lot of people in your head saying they are not right for you, it could turn you against the relationship. This is because you can’t deal with the constant strife caused by people that you care about. Always be in your clear mind without getting influenced. You fell in love with your partner because they were amazing, so never forget that!
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